its been a while since my last blog. i always get on other people for not updating their blogs and there i go taking a century off right? lifes been a little stressful and some things have changed. along with those changes came a sense of who i am and how i can be towards others...
everyone is different and that's what makes us an amazing species. i def value individuality and try to embrace it. its hard when someone thinks that you are one way but you really dont mean to come across that way. for the record i cant help it. i am the way i am... the way that ive made people feel is out of my control and all i can do is keep that in mind when i'm around them. I'm perfectly normal ( in a sense). everyone has their flaws and bad habits... mines just may be my smart mouth. its all good and fun with me until someones feelings gets hurt tho. def not intentional ( well not until you get on my bad side).
so all and all, i'm in a good place right now. trying to make things happen and better myself and my relationships even if it means i have to turn on my filter and watch what i say. i can tone it down. it cant hurt to be nice for the sake of keeping good company around. :)
i feel you. i TRY to value most people's individualtiy as well. sometimes i find myself judging people though. especially if something about them is the complete opposite of what i'm used to or the social norm.
ReplyDeleteits great that you are in a good place too. i have to remind myself often that although my life is not where i want it to be, i'm more fortunate than most. sometimes you HAVE to watch what you say and whom you say it to because everyone doesn't interpret things the way we do.
thanks. its really hard with me sometimes tho...
ReplyDeleteeven when i try it seems to come out wrong, but so far trying is all i can do.